The Cha ChaSlide and Cupid Shuffle~~UnforgettableMoments

By far one of the greatest moments at my school was this past Thursday night. We were having a college after hours social and had invited a couple of the local high school bands and ROTC squads. We had a disc jockey and every program of study offered at the college was represented by a booth, it's advisor and a few of the students. Our academic offerings were also being showcased, such as clubs and organizations.

So sometimes the best things in life are the little things, the unexpected things. Such as the best moment. My advisor, a former Sgt. of the state troopers and one of the strongest women I know personally, is known for her love of putting spice in life. She is loved and adored by all her students. It was Sgt. Jaki that helped me continue on and pursue an associates degree rather than a diploma, and to inspire me to also desire and go after a masters degree asap. If it was not for Sgt. Jaki, I do not know if I would have made it through my first few quarters without quitting out of fear that I would not be able to make it in the world of Criminal Justice. She had faith that I could make it when I had no idea of my own talent and goals. I think she only got nervous once when I asked to intern at RYDC. But she supported me nonetheless and encouraged me no matter what. Sgt. was willing to put herself out there to recammend me as the number one student in the school and the state~ and even though I didn't win the state competition, I could feel that she was proud of me anyways. And that made all the difference in my college education and my passion to do well.

Anyways! The best moment~ the DJ turned on the music while the students and staff were setting up for the social event, and the Cupid Shuffle came on. Sgt. Jaki is not known for being shy (neither are her students) and next thing I know she is out there in the parking lot doing the Cupid Shuffle! It has been awhile since I danced it, despite it being one of my favorite dance songs, so I jumped out there and grabbed some friends (some of whom would NOT participate, but they did videotape the spectacle). I never had so much fun at school! We were laughing, dancing, sliding and having the time of our lives. I later requested the Ch Cha Slide and for the Cupid Shuffle to be played again, to which I am grateful they honored my request! The parking lot became more populated with people willing to jump in. I learned a new dance that Sgt. Jaki taught us and though it was not my speciality (I don't 'wobble' as good as I Cha Cha and slide) it couldn't have gotten much better. I wish that some of my other friends had been there to enjoy the night and blessing of having fun, enjoying laughing and dancing. 

While the school year, and my current education, is ending, I can't help but be thankful for the experiences I've had. I know that as I go on to pursue and further develop my education that I will have many more fun-filled memories. But I don't think I'll ever forget dancing in the parking lot with my advisor, staff and students at my last college after hours as a student ambassador, the GOAL representative and as SGT. Jaki's student. And though this sounds like a farewell to arms, it really is not. I am far from finished, and there are many more stories till the end of the year to tell! 

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Random Introduction

Hello, welcome to my haven.

This blog is just going to be a miscellaneous collection of stories from college, life, church, whatever. If I find something interesting, I'll share it with you. If you find something, please share with me!

Random Facts To Know About Me:

Why is Your Name "AshTinkerBelle"?

My first name is Ashley, and my last is Tincher. When I was little, people used to call my Tinker, which my classmates then picked up on and called me TinkerBell. To put my own spin, I made it TinkerBelle- like from Beauty and the Beast, lol. TinkerBelle is my nickname now, over a decade later. History does repeat itself!

What School Did You Graduate From?

Actually, my mom started to home school my older sister and I right before the 911 attacks in New York. I loved it and graduated in 2009. I was not much of a social butterfly then, very shy, so I enjoyed that. Now, however, I love attending college and interacting with other students and teachers.

Why Criminal Justice?

It intrigued me. I needed to pick something I thought I would like and could get a good job with to support my mom and I after a nasty family divorce. I fell in love with the classes and even more with juvenile justice. Entering the CRJ field will be hard for me though, not because I cant handle it, but because others have a tendency to under estimate me. I'm a five foot tall, girl next door type- I do not look tough, though my friends can vouch for my tenacity. So I have to fight stereotyping and looking younger than 20. But I love the field and look forward to pursuing a career in it.

Where do You Stand on Politics?

I call myself a Libertarian, but I have yet to find a candidate that I totally agree with in any party. As for the upcoming presidential elections, I don't have a favorite yet. I like a couple of the republicans, have heard nothing from any other party, interestingly enough. Only time will tell.

Who Inspires You?

Many people inspire me. Those who are willing to step out and do the hard thing when no one else will, strong women who went against the norm. My ultimate inspiration is Jesus Christ- He always did the right thing, and He ultimately put Himself on the line. For me. For you. That's pretty inspiring, no matter who you are.

Anything We Should Know About You?

Let me think. I can have a weird sense of humor at times, I can go very quickly from being dead serious to cracking jokes. Most of the time I'm pretty serious unless I am just chilling with my friends. I love to laugh, I hate to cry, I'm creative at heart and a writer to the core. Poetry, lyrics, novels, you name it, I've written or am in the process of writing them.

Alright everyone, again, welcome and I hope we have a good and enlightening time. I'm off, feel free to comment and question.

~*~ Leave a Legacy That Will Change the World Around You. ~*~

AshTinkerBelle